We apologize for the lack of updates to our family blog. As you know we have had a brief pause in our lives here at the Alexander household. Instead of reliving every detail of our near-tragic experience we thought we'd share some pictures with you-(thanks to the "Aunt Kimmi's"). We're sorry we weren't able to capture the actual trauma of that day/week-obviously impossible, but we sure wish we had a photo of Ashton on Life Flight! Speaking of--It is quite the experience following Life Flight across the valley in the longest car ride of your life knowing that your "miracle" is struggling to survive. Talk about a reality check!
These first three photos are taken up at Primary's trauma E.R. in the resuscitation room right after the "Team" had stabilized Ashton and we were able to be with him.
During our stay social work came to visit Ashton and offered to take him on a stroller ride. We thought it would be fun since he was starting to feel better and loves to look at things--but we found that "fun" didn't even begin to describe it! We even talked the workers into letting us keep the stroller while we were there to go anytime we wanted. Ashton also quickly discovered the T.V. that was located up at the foot of his bed. He would even turn his head towards it every time we passed it by in the stroller! He now watches "The Backyardagains" and "Blue's Clues" from start to finish every day at least once and he also goes on rides in his umbrella stoller throughout the house daily, so guess where he watches his television shows...from in his stroller of course!!! 
Lastly, this picture is of what we think was one of Ashton's favorite part of being at Primary (aside from the "baby wheelchair rides")- the Butterflies! There is a mom who after she lost her baby while up at the hospital decided to make these butterflies for the infant unit with the help of her family. She came and hung from the ceiling all 650 butterflies herself; she wants the sick infants to have something happy and colorful to look at as they get strolled in the hospital beds and look up at the ceiling.
We found a "pink" butterfly on the floor of a hallway after Ashton's upper G.I. and the nurse told us we could keep it! Ashton is sure glad we did. We hung it centered above the head of the changing table and when Ashton gets changed he smiles, and laughs and talks to the butterfly! We sure are relieved, it must bring back only good memories!
We want to thank our family and friends for all of your prayers, support and love over the last couple of years. We love you so much and feel blessed to be so loved in return. Throughout our trials we have learned that we really are in control of nothing, it is how we deal with what we're given that matters; and that FAITH is everything. Life is too short to be taken for granted.
"We never know how good we are until we're called to rise..." -Emily Dickinson
As most of you know, Ashton was being treated with helmet therapy for plagiocephaly. He had started with a flatness around 2 months old and by his 6th month check up Dr. Folland told us it was the flattest he'd seen. You know it's bad when the family friend pediatrician whose been practicing over 30 years tells you this. However it did make us feel better to know that it isn't necessarily from being on his back too much, some babies have softer skulls than others. So up to Primary Children's we headed. 3 head castings, 2 head scans, multiple pictures, at least 13 appointments, and 6 helmets later he was finally in the helmet that worked best! Treatment lasted for approximately 20 long weeks, and we're more than thrilled to say he's finished! We don't feel the results are as great as we originally had hoped for, but we're told it should just get better from here.
For those of you who are wondering...Ashton weighs 16.6 pounds and is 25.75 inches long-which is surprisingly less than 1 pound heavier than at 4 months.
He was pretty handsome before, but we definately love his new stylish image. Thanks grandma "Nanny"!
